“Sex Pleasure In Woman Is A Kind Of Magic Spell; It Demands Complete Abandon; If Words Or Movement Oppose The Magic Of Caresses, The Spell Is Broken.”
~ Simone de Beauvoir, feminist writer + social theorist
Learn how to cast a spell using your sexual energy + intention.
“Simply put, sex magick is just taking your desires or hopes, and using the energy of the erotic to to will them into reality,” says Tampa-based sex coach and “energy healer,” Rebekah Beneteau. “You’re manifesting something into existence by directing the energy of orgasm towards it.”
Sex is the energy of creation. And creativity. And life force. When practiced mindfully we can connect with our higher senses, heal, and direct our climax towards adding energy to any manifestation.
Today is November 11 and it's the perfect day to practice some sex magick.
Here are 11 sex magick tips for this auspicious day.
Warning: I am not responsible for giant manifestation. Practice at your own risk. 💦
Set your intention. Not just for 11/11. Practice sex magick for an entire moon cycle for the best results. Ask yourself... What am I releasing? What are you calling in? Sit with your journal and set a single point of focus. Create an affirmation and visualization to accompany solo or partnered exploration. Here is an example of a powerful intention: I now open my heart to love, may I see that reflected back to me.
Set your space. Our bodies feel the most relaxed somewhere we feel safe. Light candles, draw the blings, add music. Burn some cleansing herbs. Make sure your space is clean and free of clutter. You want to be able to relax into the magick.
DON'T RUSH. This is key. Let your body and mind unwind. Give yourself at least 30 minutes to one hour.
Begin with no destination other than exploring sensations that feel amazing. Even if you do not climax you can be affirming of your affirmation as you explore what feels delicious.
Take this practice with you into the world. Yogis say the real yoga happens off the mat. This is the same with sex magick. NO, this does not mean you suddenly become a exhibitionist. It does however mean you begin to connect pleasurable experiences with your affirmation.
Transmute darkness with pleasure. Scorpio season is all about diving into the deep murky waters of our consciousness. Can sex magick be a part of this? ABSOLUTELY. Sex is shadow work. Meaning what comes up in sex is a portal into what you potentially have been hiding just beneath the surface. For instance, if you notice yourself become self conscious with a partner and telling yourself old stories about what that means. Or if you are solo and begin to rush and become oriented only on the orgasm. All of this is information and hidden power that can be used for your manifestation. Love is the most powerful force on the planet and can be a balm to us when we begin down the same old worn out neural pathways in the brain. Using love we can begin new connections in our minds.
Explore embodied practices. "In The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, Bessel van der Kolk writes, “In order to change, people need to become aware of their sensations and the way that their bodies interact with the world around them. Physical self-awareness is the first step in releasing the tyranny of the past.” If you want to heighten your sexual pleasure, start by becoming aware of your own body and its many sensations. We suggest engaging in embodied practices--yoga, dance, massage, martial arts, etc.--until you find the right fit for you. Once you do, you’ll be preparing yourself for better sex without any extra effort! Embodied practices strengthen and repair mind-body-spirit connections." -Anima Mundi Blog
Notice your breath. Breath is a doorway into higher realms of consciousness. If we work on our breath in and out of sex magick our lives are bound to change. Most of us are breathing shallow and not from the belly. When we begin to breath correctly and deeply, especially in the bedroom we open ourselves to being able to access all kinds of information in the field. Youtube is a great resource for breath work of all kinds.
Create an accountability sex magick practice. Ask a friend or partner to join you either physically or just energetically. Create weekly checks-ins of some sort. The only way to sense and see a difference is to stay with ourselves and keep the practice going. The best way to do that is to have someone you are staying accountable with. Play with what that looks like for you.
Map your gspot or practice semen retention if you are a male. I just took a mini workshop online to map the gspot and I was beautiful. Check it out here. Adriana does all kinds of work around sexuality.
Be a conduit for god and goddess. Be willing to feel your feelings. Be willing to be a conduit for which the spirit of your manifestation can come to be. It might not just land in your lap one day. Most likely you will become the person that allows for the manifestation to be. You will get sign, synchronicities, and directions from your inner self about what that is to look like. Listen.
A few more things to know...
If you are new to magick. The spelling here may be new to you as well. Learn more about magic with a K here.
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